Did you know a child’s basic moral
foundation is set by age five[1]?
Furthermore, the first three years of life are the most critical for shaping
the brain’s learning structure[2].While
science most often uses this information to support educational and social development
it is also true of spiritual development. Additionally, even if your child
hasn’t learned to communicate yet, he is learning at a rapid rate and makes a
captive audience. So, introducing bible truths during the early years helps
prepare children for future application of God’s word.
When we had children, my Christian
brain, teacher brain, musician brain, and mommy brain all got together and
started spitting out some ways to teach my young children about God. And I was
amazed what came out. Some was natural and some was learned, but now I know all
of it was a gift from the Spirit. I am so thankful God is using me to teach my
children about him, and I want to share what has worked!
1.
Sing a “Thank You” song (to the tune of, “Head and
shoulders, knees and toes”).
Scriptural basis: “Through the praise of children and infants
you have established a stronghold against your enemies,
to silence the foe and the avenger.” Psalm 8:2
Songs have a way of reaching into the deepest parts
of our being and solidifying biblical truths. Use this song while playing or saying
prayers.
Lyrics
Thank you, God,
for loving me
Loving me, loving
me
Thank you, God,
for loving me
Thank you, God
Additional
verse ideas
Thank you, God,
for Je-sus…
Thank you, God,
for saving us…
Thank you, God,
for family…
Thank you, God,
for everything…
2.
Quote scripture.
Scriptural basis: “I have hidden your word in my heart that I might not sin against you.”
Psalm 119:11
Simple verses like, “Love the Lord your God (Matthew
22:38),” “Love your neighbor (Matthew 22:39),” and “Serve one another
(Galatians 5:13)” are great for encouraging good behavior and correcting bad
behavior. Another option is to say, “Jesus says, ‘Love one another,’” to emphasize
that Jesus expects obedience (not just mom and dad). And before you know it your
child will be quoting the verses too!
3.
Find an appropriate bible story book.
Scriptural basis: “Train a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not
depart from it.” Proverbs 22:6
Story time needs to consist of at least one bible
story. There are several good books out there I recommend. First, The Jesus Storybook Bible: Every Story
Whispers his Name works
great for ages three to five (find it here at Amazon)
because it explains how Jesus fits into each bible story. For babies to
two-year-olds, we love the Read and Share
Toddler Bible (here it is) because
the stories are simpler, shorter, and there are even coordinating activities.
Another idea is to let your child touch the bible as you read, thus giving him
ownership of God’s word.
4.
Give God credit for beauty and blessings.
Scriptural basis: “When I consider your heavens, the work of your fingers, the moon and the stars, which you have set
in place, 4 what is mankind that you
are mindful of them, human beings that you care
for them?” Psalm 8:3-4
The next time you go outside, look to the sky and
say something like, “Wow! Look at the beautiful sky God created. You’re
awesome, God!” And when blessings come, tell your child that God gives us good
things because he loves us and takes care of our needs. For example, when God
blessed us with the perfect family car a few months ago, we consistently
reminded our boys that it was from him. Soon our oldest son started saying,
“Thank you, God, for our van!” It was awesome to hear our child give credit to
God.
5.
Reliably attend church.
Scriptural basis: “And let us consider how we may spur one another on
toward love and good deeds, 25 not giving up meeting together, as some are in
the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the
Day approaching.” Hebrews 10:24-25
No matter what you do at home, your entire family
needs the support and fellowship of other Christians. And don’t just send your
kids to church – go with them. Make it a priority to worship together. Kids are
experts on identifying hypocrites so don’t “preach” to them without following
through in obedience in your own faith. The routine expectation of going to
church is a necessity for your child’s growth in their understanding of Christ.
There
you go, folks! If you have other ideas that have worked for your family feel
free to share them in the comments.
Great thoughts on starting early.
ReplyDeleteHistorically, the church has used a couple of tools to teach children and new believers. One was catechusm which is question and answer. We use the New City Catechism app which has an adult version and child version in it. But the repetition of the question/ response drills into their mind biblical truth. We have been doibg this with Gretchen (2 1/2) and she is giving the answer for question 1 after 2 months of casual work.
Second is singing biblical truth. The Wesley brothers did this for the coal miners they preached to. John would preach and Charles would write a song based on the truth preached so they could sing in the mines reinforcing the preaching. Many of our great hymns came from them.
The second would be family worship. Families that sing, read Scripture, and pray together teaches our kids that we were created for worship daily. The best first church is in the home.
Also, there are a couple of resources for Scrupture songs. Seed Family Worship and the Rizers (cartoon on youtube). If your child can sing the wheels on the bus, then how about Psalm 1?
Just a few thoughts to chew on!
Soli Deo Gloria!
Aaron